Showing posts with label lifestyle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label lifestyle. Show all posts

Thursday, 3 October 2013

instalife #3

1. Chillin' on the beach | 2. Birthday dinner 
3. Nando's with Rhee | 4. Followed by Eastbourne
5. Beginning of my Breaking Bad obsession | 6. Work night out 
7. Feel-good read | 8. Spot of retail therapy
9. Coffee on the journey back to Sheffield | 10. New winter coat
11. The OC rewatch | 12. All of the rings!

Hello again my blog lovelies! How was you summer? Just a quick post from me to notify you that I am in fact alive. I took an unplanned blogging hiatus but I am back with some snaps of my summer. Regular-ish posts to come soon!

Follow me on various social media formats such as Twitter, Instagram and YouTube under my username @whimsicella if you're at all interested in keeping up with my life (plus I update them round the clock!)


Sunday, 30 June 2013

instalife #2: may and june edition

1. Waiting to see The Great Gatsby! / 2. Daytrip to Lewes for Mama's birthday / 3. YO! Sushi with my B-Town Gang / 4. Brighton Wheel from the Pier
5. Packing up the Oedipus Wall / 6. Chilling out with Company magazine / 7. Night out in Manchester with Emma / 8. My latest video
9. Kicking back in my slipper socks! / 10. Nice little card from my friend Derry / 11. Koppaberg after a long day at work / 12. Sunday listening: Gotye

Okay, so making this a fortnightly feature kind of backfired because I haven't done another instalife in TWO MONTHS (aka when I first posted one, op). However, it is back for the last day of the month, just highlighting the 'best bits' of my boring life from May and June. Can you believe it's gonna be July tomorrow already? Crazy! This year is just flying by.

Things wound down a bit after finishing uni for the year (can't believe I'll be starting my final year in September), so I was just mooching around between Sheffield and Brighton for a while, job hunting and seeing friends before we all went our seperate ways for the summer. Now I'm back home for good (well, for the summer) and I've got myself a little waitressing job to occupy my days while I think of some interesting things to do this summer so I don't die from boredom of routine! A trip back up to Sheffield is a definite, for belated birthday celebrations and moving into the new house. I'd also like to spend a day in London visiting the zoo and aquarium. And, should budget allow it, perhaps a trip to Devon to visit my friends Derry and Katy, and meet their adorable baby Lia!

Follow me on various social media formats such as Twitter, Instagram and YouTube under my username @whimsicella if you're at all interested in keeping up with my life!

Until next time!

Sunday, 7 April 2013

instalife #1



1. Easter treats from Graze / 2. Twin cats from next door
3. Reminiscing Oedipus :'( / 4. On the train home to Brighton!
5. Gle? Starbucks name fail / 6. Yummy mango cocktails with old frinds at Las Iguanas
7. Being silly with silly sunglasses / 8. Funny flask at UO (drink responsibly, kids)

Apologies for my lack of presence recently, I haven't been updating because I've just needed a break! My life has been so crazy busy since January, and what with me being back in Brighton this week for a mini-break, I wanted to take some time to chill out and just do nothing for the first time in a long while. And it's been great being home, spending time with my mum, enjoying home comforts and seeing friends I haven't seen in months. It's really lovely! Back in the swing of things tomorrow though, I'll be on the train back to Sheffield and then it's full speed ahead into regular life. I've got lots of exciting new plans and projects, not to mention only about a month left of uni (and second year, eeep!)

I didn't want to leave you guys high and dry though, so here are some snippets from my instagram from the last week or so. Not much going on, I'll admit, and as you can see, I'm still in mourning from the end of Oedipus! I might make this a weekly/fortnightly thing just as a little filler for when I have a lull in blogging from when life takes over! For those of you on instagram my username is @whimsicella if you want to follow :)

Happy Sunday!


Sunday, 10 February 2013

winter woollens.



 TURBAN - TOPSHOP / SCARF & JUMPER - ZARA / COAT - SELFRIDGES
LEGGINGS- TOPSHOP / SOCKS - TOPMAN / SHOES - REPUBLIC

The snow has melted away (hopefully for the last time) but being February it is still pretty damn chilly outside. I've not got much on the cards today so I'm off to the cinema with some pals, and I've gone understated and opted for some comfy woollies to wrap myself up in. I really love the little jeweled headband turban I picked up in the Topshop sale, it's perfect for when I want to wear my hair up but still want to keep my head and my ears toastie warm. I also love love love this jumper from Zara, not only is it super soft but it's a beautiful mustard colour. I have another mustard coloured jumper from H&M in my wardrobe that's more loose fitting (probably because it's a size 16) and perfect for layering. I just love mustard coloured jumpers! Another thing I love is men's socks, like these ones I snagged from Topman's sale section. I mean, they're kinda big, seeing as my feet aren't exactly man-sized, but there's something about men's socks that are so much more snuggly and comfier than women's.

Happy Sunday everyone!


Wednesday, 30 January 2013

Nature Delivered Some Yum



My Graze box came in the post today! And let me say, I was very impressed with the array of goodies they provided for me in my little nibble box. I first heard of Graze boxes ages ago, every one seems to be talking about them, so when I was reading a copy of this month's Company magazine and a little leaflet fell out, advertising for two free Graze boxes, I thought it was worth a try. Best. Decision. Ever. This selection of goodies were so so good, especially the Scrumptious Blueberry Swirl - the blueberry yoghurt covered raisins are amazeballs. Everything is lovingly prepared by the cooks in the Graze kitchen, it's all healthy and nutritious and the packaging is recyclable. What more could you ask for? The best thing is, when I do start paying, each nibble box like this one is only £3.89, including delivery! How great is that?

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Sunday, 6 May 2012

Outfit of the Day: Casual




Polo - River Island via eBay - £6
Shorts - Levi's via COW Vintage - £16
Black Lace-up Wedges - Zara, on sale - £40
Tights - Primark - £2
Ring - Topshop - £7.50
Wing Earrings - Topshop - £8.50
Eyelashes - Eyelure, 'Oh My!' from the Katy Perry collection - £5.99 (ish!)
Nails - Rimmel London 'I Heart Lasting Finish', Shade 193 'Black Cherries' - £2.99

Out of boredom from my regular routine of revising, browsing Tumblr, going to the gym and watching Lost (I'm on the final season now!), I thought I'd do a 'what I'm wearing today' post. Again, not something I'm planning to do regularly, just every now and then of outfits I really like. It also kind of doubles up as a 'favourite purchases' post as some of the items here I've bought fairly recently.

The polo shirt was a really nice eBay find, it's a good fit and navy blue is one of my favourite colours! I really like the Fred Perry brand, but of course cannot afford it on a student budget, so this 'imitation' by River Island is a great equivalent. The Levi's were bought a while back, sometime in October, but they are by far my favourite pair of denim shorts (and I own a lot!) as they go with pretty much everything. The black wedges have made an appearance before, I'm still not confident enough in heels to wear them day-to-day but they are my go-to shoe whenever I go out in the evenings. I love them a lot, as you can tell from the wear! 

I don't tend to wear accessories that often, but I really love the ring and earrings from Topshop, they are definitely my most worn pieces of jewelry at the moment. With nail colour, I usually stick to black or navy blue and tend to buy Barry M, but this time I thought I'd try something a bit different, brand and colour-wise. Still dark though because I don't think bright or pastel nail colours suit me very well! I do recommend Rimmel though, it dries really quickly and takes a while to chip, even if you don't apply a top or base coat.

Though the colours are a bit dark, I think this outfit is very summer appropriate and stays true to my style. Hopefully we'll at least get a few weeks of sunshine so I can utilise this outfit to it's full potential!


Wednesday, 2 May 2012

The Female Chauvinists? Anti-Feminism in Women's Magazines



With my first year of university almost over (yikes!), I still have one final essay to write for one of my modules: Communicating Sex and Gender. Out of the many choices of essay titles, I chose the question that explores the representation of women in magazines such as Glamour and Cosmopolitan.

My research consists of looking up academic texts on semiotics (the study of signs and their meaning), books on media representation, and of course, flipping through glossy magazines and taking in their contents. As I looked through the various magazines I have acquired over the years (which consist mainly of Glamour, with the occasional issue of Cosmo), I realised that despite their Girl Power mantras and their fearless female attitude, these magazines aren't very feminist at all. 


In Cosmo's recent 40th anniversary issue (featuring Holly Willoughby on the cover), columnist Suzanne Moore wrote an article titled "Why Cosmo Rocks!" and explained that when Cosmo first hit the newsstands in the early '70s, it was, at the time, seen as this radical and outrageous thing because its main USP was female pleasure. It was one of the first magazines to insist the right of women to talk openly about and enjoy sex, be in control of their own bodies, and to 'find joy' in clothes and beauty. It was a very sexually liberating time for women everywhere. However, fourty years later, this 'sexually liberating' thinking still seems to be on the top of the list for most of these magazines. Fashion and beauty ranks pretty highly on their list of priorities too. Very rarely do we see articles on female politicians (NOT including small segments on newly elected world leaders' wives), sportswomen, women in science or women who campaign for women's rights all around the world. Instead, the pages are filled with beauty ads, fashion tips, stick-thin models and celebrities and endless articles about how to drop a dress size and how to give him the best sex he's ever had.

With all the influence and impact these kind of magazines have on women, especially their younger readers, they have so much power to do so much good. Instead, they impose messages like, "you have to look like this, act like this, dress like this..." and rather than encouraging us embrace our bodies, they make us want to change and manipulate it, and making us feel like failures when we cannot do so. Whenever they do touch on serious subjects such as Equal Pay Acts, it always gets overshadowed by the abundance of beauty and fashion and relationship columns they provide us with each month. It's like saying, "Yeah, we're not happy, but there's nothing we can do about it. So let's just make a bit of noise, then sit down and look pretty." Not to mention how predominantly straight-orientated these magazines are. So many articles in women's magazines deal exclusively with heterosexual relationships and treat lesbian encounters as 'experimental' and 'crazy' and, in general, don't take same-sex relationships seriously. In this day and age, where campaigning for LGBT rights have come so far (but still have further to go), what kind of message is this sending to future generations?



When I was fourteen, I read an article in Glamour written by Claudia Winkleman in which she shared with us her 'tips' on how to land a husband. It basically was telling women to do everything in their power to change themselves and lie to their partners in order to get that ring on their finger. It included things like doing the washing up dressed in your best lingerie and pretending to like football whenever he was around - and once you're married to revert back to your usual self because "you've got him now." Unfortunately I no longer own that particular issue in order to reference from it in more detail (I imagine I threw it out in a fit of feminist anger), but it made an impression on me because I realised that some women will do anything to please men, just to get themselves a husband.

What's recently struck a chord with me is the aforementioned 40th anniversary issue of Cosmo, and their competition to find curvy girls to represent a new size campaign with Evans, a plus-size clothing store, and to sign a contract with model agency Excel Models 1. Though Evans is a plus-sized clothing shop, storing UK sizes 14-32, the five girls they picked as the winners were all on the smaller end of the 'plus-size' spectrum, all wearing dress sizes 14-16. First of all, I find it ridiculous that a size 14 is even considered a plus size, especially factoring in that the average British woman is a UK size 14-16. I don't think it's a cause of celebration that these girls got contracts, because then we are implying that a size 14/16 is fat, which it is not by any means. Surely, if they wanted to properly represent 'curvy' and 'plus-sized' women, they would have searched for body-confident women who wore sizes 20 and up?

But I don't know, maybe I'm expecting too much from these kind of magazines. Maybe if we want to read about powerful women in politics we should do a Google search or read the Guardian or watch the news instead (however, all of these mediums still undermine women a lot). Maybe women's weekly and monthly magazines should stick to what they're good at: telling us which shoes go with which handbags, what shade of lipstick best suits our skin tone and how to have a healthy sex life. Most women go to glossy magazines for light reading and pretty pictures of celebrities. But I still think people underestimate the power of these magazines, and that those two hundred-odd pages really have an impact on how women think of themselves and each other. If they don't change what they put within their pages and how they communicate it to us, then we're just going to carry on silently living in a man's world. But at least our hair will be perfect, right...?

Edit: I ended up getting a first in that essay :)


Monday, 23 January 2012

This Month's Favourite Purchases


Cream Grandad Top - Miss Selfridge - £18
Black Skull Print Top - Miss Selfridge - £20
Leopard Print Leggings - Republic - £10
Black Lace-up Ankle Boots - Zara - £40
Blue Chiffon Skirt - Miss Selfridge - £37

I'm not going to make this a regular thing as I don't plan on being a fashion blog, but I just wanted to share some of my favourite purchases I've made in the past month. The leggings were technically bought a little bit over a month ago, but it's one of my favourite pieces in my wardrobe at the moment, and since it is a fairly recent buy I thought I may as well throw it in. It's odd because I don't usually like leggings, but I completely fell in love when I came across them through a friend of mine.

I also fell in love with the chiffon skirt and the boots. The skirt is cut just above the knee and has another layer of asymmetric drapery over it, and I simply adore the colour. I bought the boots on sale so couldn't find the original picture on the Zara website, but the picture I've used is pretty similar to what they look like. They are wonderful and I wish I could wear them every day, but unfortunately I'm still not so good with heels.

I've listed all items at their original price, except for the boots because I couldn't remember how much they used to cost, but I bought everything (bar the boots) with my 10% student discount. Thank God for NUS, eh?


Wednesday, 18 January 2012

Plastic Surgery: How far is too far?

Pushy & Proud is a reality show on Sky Living where we follow the lives of various families who each take on different parenting extremes, from parents ignoring health warnings and plying their kids with junk food, to mothers who encourage and condone their children to have cosmetic surgery. What I want to focus on in particular is the final episode, Botox Mum, in which we follow Sarah Burge (aka the Half a Million Pound Girl or The Human Barbie) and her family, and why she thinks that it is a good idea to give her seven year old child vouchers for a boob job.

Burge's youngest daughter, Poppy, presenting her voucher

Burge appeared on That Sunday Night Show to explain herself as to her reasoning behind giving a voucher for cosmetic surgery as a birthday present for her seven year old daughter. Burge's intent was for her daughter to cash it when she turns eighteen in order to get implants in her breasts. She defended that, "it's an investment. She doesn't have to spend it on breast implants, she can use it towards her education or whatever else she want to do with it." What I have a problem with this statement, though, is that the voucher clearly states that it is a coupon for PLASTIC SURGERY. Burge can defend it all she wants, acknowledge that it can be used for educational purposes instead, but she is setting it in her daughter's mind it's original message: when you are old enough, you should have implants in your breasts. Never mind that her daughter is only seven, that she hasn't gone through puberty or even started developing breasts yet. If a child grows up hearing one message, they are likely to grow up believing in it. What Burge is doing is not allowing her child to grow up with her own views and opinions on whether or not she actually wants plastic surgery, and instead, making it an inevitability like her own mother and sisters.

It didn't surprise me when I heard that Burge once again spent money on more vouchers for her daughter, only this time for liposuction. She claims that her daughter "asks for plastic surgery all the time. She wants to look good and lipo is one of those procedures that will always come in handy." The way I see it, Burge is setting her youngest daughter up for a lifetime of insecurity about her looks, constantly thinking she is not good enough the way she is, which could lead to conditions such as Body Dysmorphic Disorder, or even Anorexia. I understand that those are two extremes, but if as a child she is encouraged to modify herself, how is she ever going to be happy with what she sees in the mirror, with Mummy standing behind her telling her what could be improved?

Burge was "thrilled" when she found that her teenage daughter, Hannah, also wanted Botox
Funnily enough, I am not completely against cosmetic surgery. I understand that sometimes when you look in the mirror, you're not always happy with what you see. A lot of our discomfort towards our appearance has to do with how people have reacted towards us in the past. Whether you were teased at school for having ears that stuck out or a large nose, or a simple phrase from a relative such as, "guys don't make passes at girls who wear glasses", it always comes from somewhere. I myself have always disliked my nose, as once when I was twelve was told by my mother's friend, "Oh, I used to have a little piggy nose like you when I was younger." Now, I understand that she did not mean it with malicious intent (at least I hope not!), and I know that my nose is far from pig-like, but it's always made me feel insecure about it and wonder whether people think the same as she did. Luckily, I managed to get over it, and though I am still not crazy about my nose, I wouldn't change it for the world, because it makes me who I am. For others though, no amount of positive thinking or counselling will help them with how they feel about the way they look. Sometimes, a little bit of cosmetic surgery to correct a lifelong insecurity will help on the road to a better life.

However, this can be dangerous, as we have seen in cases such as Pete Burns, the Dead Or Alive singer who modified his face beyond recognition, and has even had implants swell and lip fillers explode. I guess there is a thin line to tread on what is acceptable and what is borderline obsessive and extreme. At the end of the day, people can do as they wish with their own bodies, whether you want to nip, tuck, lift or plump... it's all up to you. But what I will never condone is parents encouraging their children on getting plastic surgery, constantly enforcing the message "you are not good enough." Let children be children, and let them decide what they want to do with their own future without any outside influence.